The problem started when we were asked by Mr James to form into a group of 5 person few days ago for our oral presentation (oral presentation for biochem? WTH, as if we didn't have enough works in our hands)....
Undeniably, I'm closer to some of my group mates.. I'm close to almost everyone in group 1, and some in group 2 and maybe group 3...but in this semester, for some reasons, it seems that I'm much closer to Cindy and Eileen and vice versa..somehow, we ended sticking together in the same assignment groups for this sem...
Due to some unhappy memories during last semester assignments, some of us tends to avoid being in the same group with some group members....I can't state the reasons here, but those involved should know what I meant..
The truth is, I'm also one of those that avoids them...and we were kinda too obvious that day... Did my words affected the decisions of other people or did their words affected me too?
Sometimes, I have a very strong urge to tell those being avoided what is happening, maybe there will be change of attitude, maybe not..and for sure it'll affect our friendships...what should I do? I have no choice but to keep quiet..but is keeping quiet a good way to solve those problems?
Hopefully I didn't make this decision based on my emotion.....did I do the right thing? Only time will tell .....
2 comments:
its always like this when u have unhappy memories in the past. Same here. But u cant avoid them forever, maybe there comes the time u cant choose ur groupmates and u have to work with them again... so the best is to forget what happen in the past and cherish the present! Im trying to forget the pain memories i had as well..
perhaps....approach tat fella nicely..
tok to her in a...i-come-in-peace atttitude??
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